var applyConditions = [
    {
        'input': 'username',
        'condition': 0,
        'value': 'abc'
    },
    {
        'input': 'firstname',
        'condition': 1,
        'value': 'pqr'
    },
    {
        "input": "radio_SXsPOwVSD",
        "condition": 0,
        "value":"Male"
    }, 
    {
        "input": "check_box_XmNoe",
        "condition": 0,
        "value": "Apple"
    }
]

applyConditions.forEach(function(condition) {
    var targetInput = $('input[name='+condition.input+']');
    targetInput.on('change',function(){
        var results = $.map(applyConditions,(item, index)=>{
            var targetInput = $('input[name='+item.input+']');
            var type = targetInput.get(0).type;
            var check = false;
            if(type == "radio" || type == "checkbox"){
                var input = targetInput.get().find(x=>$(x).is(":checked") && $(x).val() == item.value)
                if (input)
                {
                    check = input.value == item.value != item.condition;
                }
                else{
                    // since 0 means equal, if there's no any radio button or checkbox is checked, check = false
                    check = item.condition ? true : false;
                }
            }
            else{
                check = (targetInput.val() == item.value) != item.condition;
            }

            if(check){
                // matches
            }
            else{
                // not matches
            }
            return check;
        })

        console.log(...results);
    })
});

<script src="https://ajax.googleapis.com/ajax/libs/jquery/2.1.1/jquery.min.js"></script>
<p id="username_input" data-priority=""> 
    <label for="username">Username</label>
    <input type="text" class="input-text um-field" name="username" id="username" placeholder="" value="" required="required" data-label="Username">
    ( ==abc )
</p>

<p id="email_input" data-priority=""> 
    <label for="username">Username</label>
    <input type="text" class="input-text um-field" name="email" id="email" placeholder="" value="" required="required" data-label="Email">
    ( no condition )
</p>

<p id="firstname_input" data-priority=""> 
     <label for="firstname">First Name</label>
     <input type="text" class="input-text um-field" name="firstname" id="firstname" placeholder="" value="" required="required" data-label="FirstName">
     ( !=pqr )
</p>
<p class="form-row" id="radio_SXsPOwVSD_input"> 
   <input type="radio" class="input-radio um-field" value="Male" name="radio_SXsPOwVSD" id="radio_SXsPOwVSD_male">Male 
   <input type="radio" class="input-radio um-field" value="Female" name="radio_SXsPOwVSD" id="radio_SXsPOwVSD_Female">Female 
   ( Male should be checked )
</p>

<p id="check_box_XmNoe_input">
    <label class="checkbox data-label=">Checkbox</label>
    <input type="checkbox" class="input-checkbox um-field" name="check_box_XmNoe" id="check_box_XmNoe_Apple" value="Apple"> Apple
    <input type="checkbox" class="input-checkbox um-field" name="check_box_XmNoe" id="check_box_XmNoe_Orange" value="Orange"> Orange 
    ( Apple should be checked )
</p>